the meaning of life principle

  Between Life and Integrity Principles Often we find in the social environment, whether at work, school or community, there are certain people who we know as the person who mencla-mencle. Label-mencle mencla given to people deemed to be consistent in menyingkapi something. For example, after the state agreed to something, then changed to not agree within a relatively short time. Mencla-mencle this could happen to the cases of small / trivial to matters large or important. But no one was willing to be considered mencla-mencle, they feel embarrassed, because mencla-mencle were defined as people who lack the establishment, not resolved or unprincipled. A. Understanding Principles of Life and IntegritasPrinsip life every person is different and not everything can be accepted by society. But the principle to mean a general rule which serve as a guide behavior. The principle of what we hold, is closely related to what the needs, life goals, and values that we profess. According to John Powell, the book Unconditional Love (Love is not conditional) life principle is the insight of a general nature, which is received or attached to a selected situation. For example, we hold the principle that the good must be implemented, while the poor should be avoided, then this principle directs our behavior to choose good and reject bad when faced with the choice between the two. Integrity is the characteristic of belonging to a person who has been able to develop his personality in such a way so as to reach a high level of development, balanced, and integrated between the various aspects of himself: physical, psychological, social and spiritual. Integrity can be defined as honesty and conformity between values and behavior. Between the values and behaviors will conformances if spirituality that led behavior. B. Type of Principles Pleasure (pleasure princile) Has the need to acquire things that will give pleasure, and want to achieve pleasure in life, then the things that's fun to menberi highest value exceeds yang.lain things. Principles of Power. The powers to be need, and make it as a goal in life, so that power has the highest value and very important. Others-prosper because of Empathy (altruism). Having a strong drive to be able to do much for others because of empathy. The characteristics of people who do not have a life principle: Do not have a provision hatiMudah pendirianTidak changing attitudes or responnyaMengikuti where the wind blows, his opinions often form opinions of others, or side with the situation of the most profitable and most secure. Characteristics of people who do not have Integrity: Lack of Lack of insight to know himself to set limits moralMengabaikan principle of life that has been initiated and in the hearts diguratkan sesaat.Menyadari interests that he has basic needs that are not in accordance with the norms of society, but would like to display the self as a person of high moral standing order to remain valued (hypocrites). C. Efforts to uphold the Principles of Life and Integritas1. The introduction of self sendiriMerupakan basic foundation and lasts a lifetime. What matters is that to know oneself is often perceived as a painful experience. Because for most people, it is not easy to accept the fact that he has weaknesses. There are 2 ways to face shortage of self: a) How negative or false: - Stored in the unconscious (repression) - Seeking justification for existing weaknesses (rasionalisai) - Denying, considers that it is a deficiency of others. b) positive or healthy way: lack of self-Received, namely by accepting what they are-Develop positive things we have and its negative things will be more berkurang.2. DiriSemakin introspective introspective increasingly clear principle of what life should we live or straighten. With the principle of life and psychological integrity will make us work more efficiently. Especially when faced with a situation that requires us to make choices.